5 Fresh Tips to Help You Realize That Divorce Can Be Your Opportunity to Create Your Next Best Chapter with Divorce Lawyer, Mediator, and Divorce Consultant Mara Bernstein
Learning how to realize that divorce can be your opportunity to create your next best chapter can be overwhelming, but you’re not alone! Check out these 5 Fresh Tips to help you realize that divorce can be the opportunity to create your next best chapter with divorce lawyer, Mara Bernstein. Please note, this is not legal advice.
With decades of experience as a New York City and Florida divorce litigator, divorce mediator, consultant and collaborative divorce lawyer, Mara Bernstein now helps her clients reach optimal solutions without prolonged, expensive and destructive conflict all within a private and confidential process outside of the courtroom. Whether it’s divorce mediation, settlement negotiations, a private divorce retreat, pre-divorce strategic consulting and planning, collaborative divorce or limited scope representation, she provides all the legal, financial and logistical guidance and advocacy enter so that my client enter the next chapter of their lives emotionally and financially secure.
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5 Fresh Tips to help you create the opportunity for divorce to be your next best chapter:
FEEL AND DEAL: Give yourself the time, space and grace to feel WHILE acknowledging that you also need to put one foot in front of the other and start planning and plotting your future.
CONTROL WHAT YOU CAN AND LET GO OF THE REST: Focus on what you can control and stop trying to change what you can’t control e.g., your soon to be ex spouse, the past, your regrets, etc.
BE INTENTIONAL ABOUT LOOKING TO THE FUTURE, VISUALIZING IT AND PUTTING POSITIVE ENERGY BEHIND IT: Start getting curious about other people, places and things that excite you/ peek your interest AND that will give you meaning and purpose. Then, get excited and ready for it to happen! Just remember to have realistic (vs reasonable) expectations.
BUILD YOUR TEAM: Identify and reach out to the people/resources who can help make your next chapter happen. The law and your lawyer are only one part of your divorce.
DON’T FORGET THE SILVER LININGS: It may be hard now, but you will find that out of darkness there is light.