What to say to your friend who is revealing abuse to you

Mar 4

Written By Genevieve Dreizen

These scripts should serve as a guide for tough, trying, and tremendous life moments.

We’re here to support you in supporting your people. We’re proud of you. And we’ve got you.

Here’s what to say when you don’t know what to say.

I am so glad you came to me with this, and I am so sorry you have to live through this. I promise you, your story is safe with me, and we can move forward however you're comfortable, at your pace. You are so strong. Never forget that. What do you want to happen next? Remember, I am solidly, always here for you and love you so much.

Text these scripts, email them, leave them as a voicemail, or as the basis of a phone call or conversation in person. These scripts can be used over and over and across all platforms. We hope they help. We want to support you so that you can support your people.

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